Women Have Nightmares, Men Dream of Sex

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Women have more nightmares than men, a British researcher says, but men are more likely to dream about sex.

Psychologist Jennie Parker of the University of the West of England asked 100 women and 93 men between the ages of 18 and 25 to fill out dream diaries, priming participants before dreams occurred to record them. The research was part of her doctoral dissertation.

“My most significant finding is that women in general do experience more nightmares than men,” she said. “An early study into dreams led to my discovering that normative research procedures into dream research often considered the structure of dreams, but that there is a gaping hole in terms of academic study that investigates emotional significance in the analysis of dreams.”

Women’s nightmares can be broadly divided into three categories: fearful dreams (being chased or life threatened), losing a loved one or confused dreams, Parker said.

Parker corroborated participants’ dreams with actual life experiences and found that the anxieties about past occurrences reoccur many times as “emblem” dreams.

“It is these emblem dreams that are particularly significant,” Parker said. “If women are asked to report the most significant dream they ever had, they are more likely than men to report a very disturbing nightmare. Women reported more nightmares and their nightmares were more emotionally intense than men’s.”

Sex dreams

Men’s dreams contained more references to sexual activity, Parker said, and men reported more actual intercourse, while women reported more kissing and sexual fantasies about other dream characters.

Women’s dreams also were found to contain more family members, more negative emotion, more indoor settings and less physical aggression than men’s dreams, Parker said.

Men made more references to attacks, or serious threat, but reported fewer verbally aggressive or covert acts of aggression. Men’s and women’s friendly behavior in dreams was the same; most often they reported helping other dream characters.

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3 thoughts on “Women Have Nightmares, Men Dream of Sex

  1. Could the reason for women’s increased nightmares be hormonal? For example, it is well-known that pregnant women tend to have very weird, vivid nightmares.

    Could the menstrual cycle, perimenopause and menopause also contribute to women having more nightmares?

    Regarding men dreaming more about attacks and serious threats, this could be related to the idea, based on evolutionary theory, that primitive human beings evolved the ability to dream so that they could deal with threats in waking life. Perhaps in prehistoric time men would have been more likely than women to have had to defend themselves from attack in their waking lives, therefore they would have been more likely to dream about being attacked.

    source: http://www.meaningofdreams.org

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